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blamethewizard ([personal profile] blamethewizard) wrote2010-09-30 08:38 am

INCREDIBLY SADDENED right now


Okay, I am doing a drive-by post because I heard this on the radio on the way to work this morning and it made me so, so sad. 

Suicide of a Rutgers University freshman linked to an online broadcast of his sexual encounter with another man

IDEK WHAT TO SAY ABOUT THIS. I HAVE NO WORDS. 

Way to go, alma mater, way to go.

[identity profile] chaosmaka.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 12:43 pm (UTC)(link)
This is just wrong =(

[identity profile] blameitonmerlin.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 12:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I know :(

I don't know why people do these things to each other. It's sickening.

[identity profile] chaosmaka.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 12:47 pm (UTC)(link)
So much... the world sometimes is a very weird and sad place. IDEK.

[identity profile] blameitonmerlin.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 12:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know what the consequence will be for these students (from the article it says that the most severe crime carries a max sentence of 5 years) but I don't think it *counts* as a hate crime although I think it counts as one, imo.

[identity profile] filegnaru.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 12:55 pm (UTC)(link)
i basically grew up in the gay&lesbian scene (got a second mommy when i was 10 *g*).

heard some horrible stories this reminds me a lot of some of them... people can be so incredibly cruel. :ยด(

[identity profile] blameitonmerlin.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 01:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Sadly, people abuse and treat each other terribly for their own amusement far too often.

Having grown up with a lot of friends who have two moms or dads, and being from a non-traditional family myself, I know that some people just don't understand what is "different". I think one of the reactions can be to make a joke out of it.

[identity profile] filegnaru.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 01:41 pm (UTC)(link)
what i could never understand was why there was so much hate and intolerance within the group of gay&lesbians too.
dykes saying the more feminine lesbians can not be real lesbians.
macho gays bashing gays that behave like those stereotypical tv&movie gays.
pretty much everyone hating transgenders either because now they are the enemy (hetero) or because they are not real a man/woman and therefore can not be real lesbians/gays...

it's just sick!

[identity profile] sugah66.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 02:19 pm (UTC)(link)
What disgusts me even more than this information (which is just too horrible for words) is the comments I'm reading about it. I hate this planet sometimes, I really do. I'm often ashamed to call myself human.

[identity profile] blameitonmerlin.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I haven't read the comments, but I can imagine what they are like. People are very brave on the internet.

I don't know how anyone could think this was funny or ok to do.

[identity profile] sugah66.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Because they're sick, sad individuals who can't see past the end of their noses and realize that just because other people aren't exactly like them doesn't mean that their lives are any less worthy.

[identity profile] likeaglass.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 03:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I...IDEK man. What the fuck is wrong with people? :(

[identity profile] blameitonmerlin.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I have no idea. Absolute fuckery!

This is where I went to school! I am ashamed of that right now.

[identity profile] myworldmytrue.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 04:22 pm (UTC)(link)
:(

I don't even know what to say. Human beings sicken me.

[identity profile] blameitonmerlin.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know what to say either. It's apalling!

[identity profile] josshouse.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)
There will always be people trying to humiliate and destroy the lives of other people. Sometimes because they're different, sometimes for no fucking reason at all. Sad fact of life.

[identity profile] be-merry.livejournal.com 2010-09-30 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
This has not been a good week for the GLBT community. A 13-year-old boy in my city committed suicide this week due to being bullied because he was gay. :(

[identity profile] rayslady.livejournal.com 2010-10-01 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
Argh, sweetheart, I know - sometimes people can be truly appalling.
Love <3